Question 1

Why book an escort for a threesome - why not just ask a friend or meet someone online?

Accepted Answer

Escorts are professionals who understand the importance of maintaining clear boundaries and safety.  Booking an escort for a threesome is a great way to explore your bisexuality or non-monogamy without the risk of awkwardness, ruining friendships, or catching feelings.  Unlike mutual friends, who can introduce emotional complications, escorts remain neutral, focusing solely on providing a pleasurable experience. Additionally, escorts prioritize health and safety, often undergoing regular health checks and adhering to safe sex practices. Their experience and expertise can enhance the threesome, ensuring it is enjoyable for both partners.  With Carmen, you can confidently explore your fantasies with confidence and discretion.

Question 2

What payment methods do you accept?

Accepted Answer

Cash only. Unfortunately for security reasons, Carmen is unable to take bank transfers or card payments. Sorry, Carmen does not carry change, so please bring the exact amount (unless, of course, you want to offer her a tip, which she will gratefully accept!) If you are interested in any extras, please also bring enough cash to cover these too if they arise during the booking.

Question 3

Where is your location?

Accepted Answer

Carmen offers both in-call and out-call options. If you choose in-call, you will meet Carmen at her discreet apartment in the upper CBD area. There is ample parking nearby and the entry process is simple and discreet. If you opt for an out-call, please book a hotel room for your session to take place.

Question 4

What if one of us feels uncomfortable during the session?

Accepted Answer

Consent is freely given and retractable at any time.  Carmen is very experienced and intuitive, and will regularly check in to ensure everyone's enthusiastic and ongoing consent. If anyone does become uncomfortable - for whatever reason - we will immediately pause and discuss any necessary adjustments to make the experience enjoyable and safe for everyone involved.

Question 5

Can we meet or speak with you beforehand to discuss our expectations?

Accepted Answer

Yes - this is what the Discovery Call is for. Carmen will meet you on Zoom for a relaxed 15-minute chat to discuss your desires, boundaries, and answer your questions about the experience. This call requires a $50 deposit, which can be credited towards your first booking.

Question 6

What steps to you take to ensure health & safety?

Accepted Answer

Carmen undergoes regular and comprehensive sexual health screenings to ensure she is healthy and clear of any illness or infection. It is strongly recommended that both you and your partner also get tested at least 2 weeks before your booking, especially if you have been having sex with other people. You can find your local clinic here: https://www.healthysex.nz/GetTested/   She strictly adheres to safe sex practices and does not offer any natural (condomless) services. While you and your partner are welcome to perform natural sex on each other during the booking, any suggestion/pressure for Carmen to perform services without a condom will result in the booking ending abruptly.

Question 7

What is your cancellation/booking policy?

Accepted Answer

While a deposit isn't required at present, please adhere to the following guidelines to ensure your booking stays on track.   A confirmation text will be sent out 12 hours before the booking asking you to confirm. If you do not reply within the hour, your booking will be cancelled. Additionally, if the hotel room number isn't shared 1 hour prior to the booking start time, the booking will also be considered cancelled.  In either case, in order to reschedule your booking, a deposit of 20% will be required.  Discovery call deposits are non-refundable, although the calls can be rescheduled.  If you do need to cancel or reschedule your booking, at least 12 hours notice is appreciated.

Question 8

Are you rainbow-friendly?

Accepted Answer

Yes, Carmen is committed to inclusivity and proudly supports the LGBTQ+ community. As a bisexual individual and a dedicated ally to the genderqueer community, Carmen is happy to provide her services to couples of all sexual orientations and gender identities - whether you are in a lesbian, genderqueer, or straight relationship. Her professional practice is built on respect, understanding, and support for all, ensuring a comfortable and affirming experience for everyone.

Question 9

How do I know my own personal boundaries?

Accepted Answer

Knowing and establishing your own boundaries can be confusing, especially if this is new for you. Some things to ask yourself (and your partner) are: - What am I comfortable doing with another woman? - What am I comfortable watching my partner do with another woman? - Where do I like/not like being touched or kissed on my body? - What fantasies or ideas would I like to try out with a partner and another woman?  Rest assured, Carmen will begin an open conversation at the start of the booking too so you can talk through things then. If you're wanting to talk before committing to a booking, you can book a discovery call here.

Question 10

Can you come to our Airbnb or motel?

Accepted Answer

For safety reasons, Carmen will not come to Airbnbs, motels, or motor lodges on your first booking together. On subsequent bookings, she can meet you at your private residence or Airbnb, at her discretion.

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